Sunday, December 2, 2018

Holidaying

We returned from San Antonio with the murderers' row of year-end holidays facing us.

Every day you try to hold Tommy...
We had purchased a pretty nice firefighter's costume from Costco at John's behest. Naturally, when the holiday was facing us, John reversed his decision and wanted to reprise his Boba Fett costume from last year. We got Tommy a Paw Patrol firefighter outfit to complement John's, so that's why we had no theme.


Tommy's babysitter had a little Halloween party for all the kids under 2. John, as the oldest, took it upon himself to hand out candy to the babysitter's trick-or-treaters. We found that the neighborhood was pretty happening, so we hit a couple of streets there before returning home for the night.





My college roommates convened in Anaheim for Blizzcon. I wasn't even expecting to attend (tickets are notoriously difficult to get), but somehow they were bound and determined to make it happen. This time, we had a fairly large entourage (8) compared to the 2016 outing, where it was just Jordan and me.



Overwatch is a bigger deal now, and there was a whole arena set up to watch the world cup matches. The non-Asian teams got eliminated early, and the showdown came down to South Korea vs China. I wonder who won?



Although, Starcraft II was a different story--there, somehow, a Finnish boy ended up edging out the entire competition of South Koreans, winning the world championship in commanding fashion. Meanwhile, I can't barely reliably beat the AI. So, this kills my dreams at being pro.

The midterm election finally happened. I took John along with me, thinking he might find it at least mildly interesting. Instead, he spent the entire time flirting with the young lady working the ballot counting machine.


John's friends started having birthday parties. This one was pretty...involved. They had a very nice house filled with food and entertainers. Balloon toys were constantly made, popped on the St. Augustine grass, and replaced.


Tommy never stopped eating.


PJ Masks showed up and John, along with all the other kids, were besides themselves.





The Glendora Village Christmas celebration started pretty early this year. Usually I refuse to allow any kind of Christmasing until after Thanksgiving, but this town event is pretty much the best thing they put on, so I made an exception.



Pretty good anniversary gift
Alison really wanted to see her high school's production of Guys and Dolls, so I obliged. It was our anniversary, after all. The students did a pretty good job. The auditorium is pretty pro; I was impressed. You can see my impressed face below.


Then it was off to San Antonio again, as per our original plan.







The strangest moment was arriving at Grandma James' old house with no one home. I never had experienced that before in all the times I've been there. Kevin and Tammy had kept it up pretty well, so we were able to get everything set up that we needed, except for a pack and play. We had to improvise, adapt, and overcome.


No visit to Windcrest is complete without a visit to the duck ponds.




Dad wanted to make a trip to the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels in his brand new toy. The thinking, I think, was to do some off-roading river crossings. Of course, there were bridges and Dad was disappointed. Still, after much wandering, we found a playground.


Then for the main Thanksgiving event. Kevin and all his kids and their families were there, as well as Tammy's. With our family added to the mix, there were 20+ people there, so it was the biggest crowd I had seen in a while. The red stuff made a mandatory return.






Eric and Krystal were at her family's for Thanksgiving, but since they're all in town, we got to see them a few times. As we left, Mom and her siblings were dividing up the stuff in Grandma's house. I think all of the unique artwork and heirlooms found a family home. A lot of furniture and such will probably end up being sold in an estate sale. This was probably our last time to visit Grandma's house.



The trip home was a bit nicer because we had an extra seat. Sometimes you get some nice perks on a 6:30 AM flight...I wonder how many people overslept.





Finally, we decided to make Christmas happen when we got home. Since Alison volunteered, she clambered up into the attic to locate the tree, which had been moved after pest guys and AC guys had been up there.


So, we've come up to the end of the year. A lot of stuff happened...not all of it bad. We've got a lot of big things to look forward to, like John starting school, and a rumored trip to Canada in the future. We'll see what happens!

Friday, November 16, 2018

You, Me, and a Rainy Knish - Happy Anniversary


       


So, it’s a regular weekday afternoon. I just got Tommy down for a nap, I spent a good ten
minutes looking for the magic bullet blender blades in the kitchen before giving up, threw
some random clothing pieces in the downstairs hamper, tossed the fart-noise truck and
costume parts in a basket in the front room, cleared a little more of the kitchen counter
and plopped down to skim social media for a mindless moment. (A wooden spatula and
cookie crumbs are still visible on the floor with who knows what else.)



Anyway, in my scrolling, I came across this old picture of us. You and I in New York, late
summer 2013, standing in the rain on a city street, sharing a knish. We were wandering
and enjoying the place at our leisure, taking and having time for whatever we felt like doing.
A knish in the rain? Why not? A walk through the NYC Library? OK! Some shopping at the
MOMA store? Of course! It was a less complicated time in our lives, and everything really
was about just you and I.


In all the hubbub of day to day life, the hustle out the door to work/ school/ babysitter in the
mornings,the rush of after school pickups, dinner makings, child bathings, appointment
keepings, bedtime doings, and collapsing on the couch for a moment to breathe before
getting ready for bed and starting again the next day, it’s easy to get caught up and lose
sight of moments like the one in this picture. The times when you and I are on carefree
adventures are few and far between these days, but I relish it when we have them.


Going off on a 'Moon Date' (Lunasia and Last Man in Pasadena), playing a silly game,
watching a show, sharing a snuggle before we both crash from exhaustion - all these
snippets, half moments, take me back to those early days when our us time was
unlimited and remind me that, in all of it, you and I have something pretty awesome.
I’m reminded in these moments that I not only love you (obviously), but I’m also a really
big fan of us. #wearesoawesomeweshouldwearcapes


And in all the craziness, when I stop to look around for a moment, I realize that I like this
time of chaos too. We’ve got some pretty great kids, and we’ve carved out a decent little
niche for ourselves here in California. It turns out that I’m a big fan of our little family, our
home in this place, and our life here. It's wort pausing long enough to look around and
appreciate it before the moment passes - we’re pretty lucky.


So before I rush off to do another of the many things undone, I’d like to take this moment
to say that I love you, Captain. Thanks for sharing a knish in the rain. Thanks for being a
fantastic father to our wild and fantastic children. Thanks for being here for me to hold onto,
my something solid when the world is in chaos. Thank you for being you, and for being mine.
To steal a line from Queen: Ooh you make me live/ I'm happy at home/ You're my best friend. (Listening to the full song is requisite.)


All my love,
Your Lady


… and just because it’s fun to look back, here are some pictures of us:


Honeymoon Babies - November 2012 - We were so young!



Awkward Pregnant Belly-Holding


& Less Awkward Tummy Hiding
Grandma James’ House
November 2013




Reese Party of Two + One!
Underbelly Restaurant (totally worth it)
& at Home Houston 2014






Reunited in Tucson
(after a month apart for the move to CA)
November 2015













Grandma Debby’s House
November 2016
   
  Back to Where It All Began - Woodlands Waterway Park
         November 2017

Reese Party of Four - Houston - March 2018